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Monday, March 10, 2008
Stay At Home Mom
OK.....so I told ya that I would explain why I don't think I could be a stay-at-home mom. I sit at work everyday and daydream about what my husband and daughter are doing. I am so jealous of my husband being home with her every day. But I truly don't think I could stay home.

While on Maternity leave, I truly lost my identity. I didn't have much contact with the outside world. Because of my husband's crazy work hours, I rarely saw him. My friends all had full-time jobs and a family to raise as well. So that left me with only my cats and newborn to talk to. It's not much fun having a one-sided conversation. I felt so distant from the outside world. I felt alone. It's the hardest job out there and yet, I truly felt like I was not leaving my mark on society. That is such a crazy thing to think! I mean, raising good, successful children isn't enough? I guess for me, it wasn't. I was lost during my maternity leave.

Now that my daughter is older, I know that I could be an active mom. We could do one of those playgroups or maybe do outdoor activities. This brings me to my second problem. I am NOT, nor will I ever be your stereotypical "Soccer Moms". No offense Soccer Moms. But I'm not one. I have no interest in being one. My husband and I watch the comedy sitcom "The New Adventures of the Old Christine." There are two moms on that show that make Freddy Krueger look friendly. They're all about gossip, and having the smartest, most popular kids. Come on, you know the type I'm talking about. I fear those moms. I dread the day I have to go on a field trip with those moms. I fear that if I choose to stay home with my kids, my life will be bombarded with "Those Moms."

I have no plans on staying home anytime soon. Once my husband and I have another child, maybe he'll go to work and I'll stay home. Who knows? It will be a hard decision for me to say the least. But no matter what I decide to do, I know that whether I stay home or go back to work, I will love my children more than life itself.
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Mary Rantanen
Name: Mary Rantanen
Location: Staunton, IL
 

When I was in junior high, I made it very clear to everyone that I was going to move to New York and work at MTV.  My dream came true 10 years later.  I have always had a passion for music, reading and writing.  In my opinion, it's the greatest escape route from reality. 

 

 

I'm one of those "small town girls living in a small time world".  I give credit for all of my creative passion to my seventh grade teacher, Mrs.. Lois Meckles.  Mrs.. Meckles opened my eyes to a whole new world.  After High School, I attended Western Illinois University.  I received my Bachelor of Arts in Communications/Broadcasting with a Minor in English Literature in 1997.  A week after graduation, I moved to New York City to begin my internship at MTV Networks.  After my internship, I was hired on as a freelancer.  In 2000, I moved back home to Metro St. Louis to be closer to my family.  I began working in the traffic department here at KSDK and I've been here ever since. 

 

 

So what is the traffic Department?  No, I do not ride with Bill Houska every morning in the helicopter.  Everything you watch on T.V. is timed to the very last second.  That is what Traffic is responsible for.  We create the logs with all the times.  My responsibility is putting those pesky commercials on the air.  The commercials are sent to me and I'm told how the commercials are to air.  The job is very detailed and can be stressful.  But working with great folks everyday keeps the stress levels from driving me crazy.

 

 

I am currently living in Staunton, IL with my husband Josh, our daughter Presley and our two cats Peanut and Bucky.  I want to thank my parents for always believing in me.  My dreams have come true a thousand times.  But nothing compares to having a family to go home to everyday.

 

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