Teaching and discipline It is amazing how substituting one word for another can completely change one's perspective. For example, substitute the word "teacher" for the word "disciplinarian" when considering your role in your children's lives and how they learn to navigate the world. It makes a huge difference!

I'd like to share a discussion I had just the other day with some of the nurses at work. We talked about information and tips we find helpful to pass on to parents calling in about a parenting or discipline issue. The main advice the nurses give, of course, is very specific to the problem, but we also try to toss in a little helpful tidbit where we can. "I hope he had his helmet on when he did that wheelie down the driveway." "I can give you information on the clinics that will be giving flu shots this coming weekend."

It's commonplace for parents to be well-versed in all aspects of what's normal for infants and toddlers. However, as their child grows, and life gets busier, they may not feel as comfortable with some of their child's behaviors. "Is it okay to let her paint her fingernails black?" Of her three year old, she said sheepishly, "he still sleeps in bed with us. My mom thinks he's too old for that."

At 454-KIDS the nurses enjoy these calls. Comparing "normal" kids with their child, a parent gets to see that their child is often not too far off the mark.

Remember, when it comes to teaching and discipline, keep your sense of humor and know that tomorrow is another day.

By the way, if you'd like to receive one of our St. Louis Children's Hospital brochures on discipline call 454-KIDS (1-800-678-KIDS) and press option 3. ¶ 8:46 AM